What do I love to do

I am browsing through blogs. So many people have a passions and hobbies. Things that define who they are. That is something I am seriously lacking. Kids, work, boyfriend. Now minus work so it's simply kids and boyfriend. I need to make friends, find a hobby and get a life. I like to read but I do that already. I tried knitting and it was ok but it hurt my hands and didn't hold my interest THAT much. Of course there's computers, I just can't bankroll that into a serious hobby yet.